What conventional education fails to take advantage of is that learning is life, and as children pursue life, they automatically gain knowledge. They need adults to support them in the process of life, offering guidance and assistance. A 'teacher' or 'guide' is there to cultivate a love of learning, to provide students the freedom, confidence and guidance to follow their own curiosity.
Any type of coerced learning – such as conventional education – inhibits our natural curiosity and desire to learn. Coerced learning has more to do with control than learning. Because our natural curiosity to learn is suffocated through the process of coerced learning, we conclude learning must be difficult and we must be externally motivated to do it.
The most significant notion conventional schools do teach, is how to snuff out your own curiosities, in order to be accepted. We relinquish the essence of who we are, we bow to the implication our interests are silly, unproductive, pointless or bad, and finally accept the idea we need to be reprogrammed because we are faulty and don't fit in with society.
It's true, we don't fit into conventional schools, because they remove our pride, independence and passion for life, and without it we are mindless drones. Life is everyone's right, and to succeed in it we need passion and confidence. Children don't need to be taught how to learn, the brain is born endlessly capable of learning. Children need to know they have the freedom and support to follow their passions with confidence. A 'one size fits all' approach to education is neglectful. Each person's learning preferences differ, and is prepared to learn a particular subject at differing ages. A person's present or future needs, interests, goals, and pre-existing knowledge on the subject also needs to be taken into consideration. If conventional schools were concerned with each individual child, they would provide each child with an individualized education focused on each child's strengths, desires and interests. But they don't. They can't. It would be too expensive. And this is when parents can step in to provide the freedom and guidance a child needs to lead their own interests, and ensure the essence of who they are, and their passion for life, is never snuffed out.
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Sources:
Unschooling Rules
by Clark Aldrich
Quotes About Unschooling / Life Learning
by Wendy Priesnitz
Un/Homeschooling
By Sara McGrath
The unschooling philosophy
By Joyfully Rejoycing
